Why is the very existence of “The secure family unit” in India ultimately dependent on the woman? (cos now everyone’s crying “foul” and even daring to ask the MEN to contribute.)
Who created this rule… That Men CAN and women SHOULDN’T?
From time immemorial there have been Professional sex workers (one of the oldest professions they say)… only for Men!
Women don’t have sexual needs?
We are wearing blinders!!
We have been programmed into some one’s experiment called “Family & Culture Will Save Humanity From Damnation”.
It’s success is only an illusion. They brain wash us with those advertisements that show what a happy family looks like.
Look where it has got us …it has not worked!!
If you think it has… Then why so many rapes(only 30% are reported)…. heinous… other than the Non-Consensual ones, there are those where a woman’s insides have been pulled out with bare hands, … where living fetuses have been destroyed …where a 3 feet long metal rod has been shoved into the vagina.
Who teaches them? How do they think these out?
Easiest answer … Films … books and cheap entertainment!
But You and I and our families watch the very same cheap entertainment… do we see ourselves want or desire or dream or fantasize doing those things they did?
The stats show that most rapes are committed by a relative!!
A Family Member!
These Rapists bank on the very rule of MODESTY that has been created.. a woman must cover herself appropriately at all times and it’s always her fault and she’s the one who enticed the Rapist.
Her body parts hold the proverbial “Khandan ki IZZAT” (Family Honor)
How many brothers and fathers have killed their sisters to protect this Izzat (honor)!
Women have to stand up and take their right full place.
Yes it will be highly uncomfortable for sometime… Yes! Many women will take undue advantage of this and innocent men will perish!
This fire cannot be stopped though.
It’s time for a change …and CHANGE will hurt … cos we’re not used to this. But we have to give it a try.
p.s. Why is premarital sex wrong? hell… why is sex a sin?
It’s one of God’s most beautiful creations and we as a society call it a taboo!
Why does one naturally feel this physical drawing towards more than one person in spite of being brought up in a good, united family?
In most cases ..in India… the “first night” is nothing short of RAPE
You may not agree… but its true. look up the stats!