The video in question …her outburst …a stifled scream??
Millennia after millennia, experiencing oppression of the worst kind, (Yes… even more heinous than you can imagine) women have finally started to speak out.
Sometimes sounding implausible, one sided, hard, cruel or feminist (as we have conveniently named them), we can’t handle these voices.
We are not used hearing them at these decibels.
We are not used to hearing these words come out of the very gender that we were conditioned to believe as docile, nurturing, abiding, shy, a Mother, a Sister, a wife!
(Coming from an All Boys school, the 1st time I heard a girl swear, I stood gawking… stunned.)
However, at no point did the monologue ever say it’s every WOMAN’s choice; she said “it’s MY choice!”
This means, she believes in the freedom of choice.
This also means she would… and have to, respect – “Your Choice” too (if you so wish)… Be you a Man, a Woman or an Epicene (the third gender).
Naturally with Choice comes Responsibility! … and I’m sure I heard that unspoken acceptance in her tone, didn’t you?
Why the outburst on SEX before / after / during, etc.?
People screamed Adultery!! Promiscuouity!! Nympho!!
Aadmi kare to Rangeela hai… Aurat kare to Ra…?
a few reactions
- “…if she’s ok with adultery …she should be ok with Rape!”
Not many men (and surprisingly some women too) realize the difference between Rape and Sex! It’s not just a non-consensual act, it’s an evil act… with intent to physically and mentally subdue/hurt/bleed/kill the victim!!
Have you heard of a Man being raped?? That’s because he too would never Tell a soul and probably would never even acknowledge it himself.
…and if you know a man who’d been raped, would you ask him if he enjoyed it?
- Choose your role model wisely… between an entertainer/actor and a sportsperson or an army person.
So every entertainer is a whore/low life and all the others are saints??
The oppressed have been screaming “justice” and all we say is …that’s nature’s way, what can we do?
We can at least Shut Up and Listen… and in all the disorder, we may find our own salvation!